End-of-Life Photo Session Is a Time to Celebrate Everything You Love About Your Pet
WHAT IS END-OF-LIFE PHOTOGRAPHY?
I've been where you are.
That moment you don't want to believe is real, when the vet says you only have few days left with your best friend. When your world is suddenly turned upside down and you can't imagine life without them. Whether they've been a part of your life for 1 year or 20 years, trying to think what tomorrow will be like without them by your side feels impossible. There are probably a thousand thoughts running through your mind and scheduling an end-of-life photo session is probably not one of them.
But it should be.
Though they go by many names (Rainbow Session, Silver Session, Joy Session, Honor Session, Memory Session, etc.), most people don't even realize that end-of-life photography exists. And some might even think "why would you want that?" A photo of your pet's final days? When they might be suffering or in pain? Who would want to capture that? Well, during their lives, we may capture a million and one snapshots of our furbabies on our phones but never think to get a "portrait" of them done (whether it's of just them or with the whole family). And by the time they're gone, you may realize you didn't take very many pictures of them (because life gets in the way, of course) and all you have left might be a handful of pictures of them to look at...but none that you necessarily want to frame or use as their "final" or "memorial" photo.
This happened to me when I lost my eldest cat Zinger Jo on July 16th, 2024. He was 15 years old and had been with us through everything. But towards his last few days, he became confused, wouldn't eat or drink, would sleep all day, in random parts of the house he'd never slept in before, and could barely even hold himself up. He just wasn't our "Zee" anymore. So, when we ultimately decided to put him down, I wanted to post some pictures to honor him but realized that I only had maybe 4 "good" ones on my phone. In the end, I don't regret our decision to say goodbye when we did, but I do regret not having a professional portrait of him made. And I hate to think how many families are out there in the same situation.
WHAT TO EXPECT
So, what you can expect from an end-of-life pet portrait session? Well, it’s whatever you want it to be really. It can be at your home, inside or out, or at a local park that your pet loved to frequent, anything.
However, the first step is to look for a pet photographer that has experience with end-of-life sessions and prioritizes their schedule to accommodate the sometimes-urgent nature of such sessions. And while I'm still getting my feet wet, my promise to you is that I will prioritize your schedule and even cancel personal plans, if necessary, and reschedule standard portrait sessions in order to be there for an animal that will soon be crossing the Rainbow Bridge.
Because time is of the essence, I want to help capture your final moments together as quickly as possible. During our session, I will do everything possible to keep your pet happy and comfortable. If your pet has any limitations, let's talk about it and find what's going to work for them (and you). Your pet's comfort is priority.
You don’t need a professional studio or backdrop to have beautiful pictures of your pet. End-of-life pet portrait sessions are about creating images of everything you love about your dog or cat (or rabbit, or hamster, or rat, or ferret, or bird, etc.), what they love to do, where they love to sleep, what they like to eat, etc. For instance, Zinger loved the cream inside zinger snack cakes (which is where his name comes from), but we never captured him eating any. So, tell me about your pet and the most important things. What was it like when you brought them home? What about them makes you smile? Do they have any quicks? Any special or unique markings? What's their favorite snack? Do they only like to sleep on their back with their feet in the air? Tell me anything and everything that makes them special and I'll do everything I can to capture them during the session.
Just remember: No matter where the session takes place, it's going to be pet-led. Whatever THEY want to do, we'll do. You may really want to have them walk in the park or do tricks like they used to but, if they're not themselves, we don't want to force them to do something they just don't have the energy to do anymore. We want them as happy and as comfortable as possible. They don't have a lot of time left, so we don't want to spend it forcing them to go on a hike because it "used to be their favorite thing" when all THEY really want is to cuddle with you on the couch. It's all about them.
During the session, you may start a story with laughs and end it in full-blown tears. That's okay. Honestly, I'll probably join you. Our pets leave such an impact on our lives, it's hard not to cry thinking about what used to be or what's to come. I just hope that, by the end, I'll leave you feeling even just a little bit better about saying goodbye.
And don't worry, I'll NEVER charge for an end-of-life session. That should be the last thing you're thinking about right now, so you'll never have to.
If you're in need of an end-of-life session, contact me. Let's cry together.
*These are not official end-of-life photos but are similar examples of what I can offer.